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Take it slow. Enjoy the little things. Significantly Simple It is a timely reminder for myself. I need to slow down. Lately, my days are chaotic, and everything is a blur. Sometimes, I wake up not knowing what I am waking up from. 😖 Love, Aiza 💌 Read more
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How do you deal with uncertainty? My faith is the ultimate tool in keeping me in check. Live Accept that life is uncertain. Let go of the need to control its flow. Love, Aiza 💌 Read more
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What’s a thing you wish schools actually taught? I would promote the subject like this: Life skills are practical tools for daily survival and success. They help you think clearly, manage stress, solve problems, and reach your goals without feeling overwhelmed. Most young people often appear to lack common sense and practical life skills. The… Read more
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What’s something you used to worry about but don’t anymore? These days, I make myself stop thinking too much about things that are beyond my control. It is not easy, of course, but it is worth giving a shot. Try it and see for yourself. P/S Growing plants is a much better use of time,… Read more
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Awareness comes first, then acceptance. Acceptance WHEN YOU ACCEPT YOURSELF, THE WHOLE WORLD ACCEPTS YOU. PICTUREQUOTES.com Love, Aiza 💌 Read more
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Can you tell when a dormant volcano is going to erupt by looking at it? Only the Darkness Knows Love, Aiza 💌 Read more
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Keep your thinking hat on, even when you speak. Where’s Your Thinking Hat? Words are the ultimate double-edged sword. They have the power to build realities, heal, and connect—but they are equally capable of destroying, manipulating, and inflicting deep harm. Love, Aiza 💌 Read more
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What is the best excuse you have heard lately? On the ride home from school pick-up, I asked my twelve-year-old daughter if everything was okay. She had a long face, and my attempts at random chatter fell on deaf ears. Here’s her response: ‘My social battery is low. Had so much socialising earlier, and now,… Read more
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Are you a lifelong learner? No one can teach you unless you are willing to learn. So, always keep an open mind, whether it relates to academics or anything else. You need to try to be an adaptable and gracious receiver. Learning is a journey of discovery, so your attitude matters to ascertain what you… Read more
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What villain actually had a good point? The Joker, hands down. His ultimate life lesson is to stop taking the world so seriously and find freedom in chaos. Instead of constantly chasing plans, embrace life as it comes. True power comes when you stop needing approval from others and rely only on yourself. So, never… Read more
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Is a little chaos actually good for us? Think of it like solving a jigsaw puzzle. First comes the mess; then, voilà, you have a masterpiece ready for viewing! Chaos is simply life rearranging itself to support your growth. The.gratitude.mindset Self-growth thrives on a chaotic environment. A little chaos shakes things up and helps you… Read more
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“I am a woman in process” Borrowing Oprah’s Wisdom At fifty-two, I’m still discovering myself, finding my life’s purpose, and embracing all beautiful uncertainties… Love, Aiza 💌 Read more
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What’s the best way to deal with negative thoughts? Nobody can escape negative thoughts. Not even the most level-headed person is capable of such. Read my thoughts from one of my earlier posts on not reacting to a trigger. Read more
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One blessing a day for 30 days. Blessing One A timely self reminder for myself. This morning, as I dropped off my son at the campus, I realised I had been quite nag with him lately. A fleeting thought of disliking him made my heart stop. Surely, the fault is not entirely his. I have… Read more
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If you could instantly master any skill, what would it be and why? I would love to be a polyglot. With languages, you’re at home anywhere. Edmund De Waal My affinity for words is undeniably strong. As a logophile, I love how they magically transform different emotions and meanings through word choice and structure. For… Read more
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I love your new hair cut! But you gotta do something about your white hair. I’m Ugly, So What? Have you ever felt annoyed or uncomfortable when receiving a compliment as it sounds like a backhanded insult? You are not alone! Just know this; insecurity can make people nasty. Don’t think too much of it.… Read more
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An explanation is utterly meaningless to ears that only want to hear without understanding. The ones who already have the answers they want to know in their head. Be selective of who deserves your explanation. Never let your words be random fillers for people who are unable to see the value. Say what is necessary… Read more
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Through the eyes of a little person, life is limitless without boundaries. Rules and societal expectations are none existent, and you’re free to form your own understanding on how the world works. Impossible and what-ifs are not heard of because as long as you believe in something, it would be true. You may say that… Read more
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I’m a mum who’s learning to see things from my adult son’s point of view. I want to understand his thought processing to help me emphatize with what he’s going through. The past experience of being one doesn’t help much when it comes to dealing with the 21st century young adults. It’s as though you’re… Read more
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Let’s put peace in order. Seeking Serenity Throwback June 2nd, 2022. In my 50s, I value inner peace and wellbeing more than anything else. It makes perfect sense when the world we live in tends to introduce unnecessary chaos. If you’re not firmly rooted, you’d fall down the rabbit hole. Love, Aiza 💌 Read more
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Do you believe in minimalism? A minimalist who’s been on this path for decades. Read my old post… Love, Aiza 💌 Read more
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Burn away. Lessons come after pain. With love, Aiza 💌 Read more
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Jot down the first thing that comes to your mind. We’re living in a time of mindless pursuits and instant gratification. Life feels good when we’re not engaged in challenging cognitive exercises that can trigger stress. To top it off, everything seems to be going our way. What a wonderful world, isn’t it? Think again.… Read more
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This present moment means a lot. It’s a time to enjoy what is here instead of what could’ve been. Let go of expectations that only bring you down and just focus on things that you can work on. Breathe deeply and see the blessings around you. Embrace all the goodness while it lasts… Life itself… Read more
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The years passed like rivers flowEach season brings its afterglowAs memories fade in the twilight Away they go without a fight Tried my hardest to hold on Still it slipped through and was gonePuzzled by the happeningIts countless holes are maddening I want to scream I want to weepHellish emotions running deepSpiralling down the rabbit… Read more
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ONE There’s a stage in life when you find yourself unable to express yourself fully. The words are all there in your head, but you can’t verbalise any of them in a proper string of sentences apart from some short phrases and ‘you know’. I tend to question my intelligence these days… TWO If you’re… Read more
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There’s just something special about silver. The colour exudes sophistication and utter chillness. It’s an understated elegance that quietly beckons attention without actually wanting it. A calm and quiet presence, but underneath lies a resilient strength unknown to others. This brings us to where my hubs and I are now. On this day, we’ve journeyed… Read more
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I’ve had a cloudy and dreary start to the year. With mum’s stage 4 colorectal cancer diagnosis in December and her passing just two weeks after, January was like a blur. It was a hellish roller coaster ride that felt so long but suddenly stopped. I’m grateful for the end of mum’s suffering, but I… Read more
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What positive events have taken place in your life over the past year? I am grateful for the numerous happenings this year that presented me with the opportunities for growth and learning. They weren’t all positive, but the outcomes have shaped my views to see things in a different light. When I claimed I was… Read more
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All these years, you thought I’ve become quiet because I was upset with your absence. Probably. But that’s just the trigger. The truth is that the damaged by your insincerity, and until now, I’m still clueless about it. Why you behaved the way you did and endlessly feeling victimized by life. You believe the universe… Read more
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NOW is the time to glorify unbusy. The state of being completely occupied each day has become a norm for both young and old. It’s as though one’s achievement is determined by a packed schedule with very little room to breathe. Worst of all, the pretenders (who claim to be busy) when they simply spend… Read more
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What’s the trait you value most about yourself? I’m the type who loves challenges in all forms. I’d get a kick out of stressful times, unfortunately. It’s not something nice, but that’s how I roll, baby! My resourcefulness provides an outlet for creativity and problem solving. It’s a form of self-exploration that allows me to… Read more
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What’s your favorite word? Apart from my favourite pastime, this is the easiest question to answer. In fact, my daily speech and writing are peppered with this iconic word that if anyone were to check, they’d definitely pick on it. Hope is a glimmer of light in the darkness, a whiff of fragrance in a… Read more
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Why do you blog? ‘The journey into self-love and self-acceptance must begin with self-examination.’ Iyanla Vanzant My first diary was a gift for my birthday. I was about ten or eleven then. Its content was mostly on daily stuff and young dreams. Over the years, my writing has evolved into snippets of life happenings,… Read more
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Do you realise that time is what we make of it? Complaining about the shortness of time and how it seems to be speeding past each day is too common and so yesterday. We’ve a tendency to blame every single setback in life to time’s inability to pause for us humans to catch up. Doesn’t… Read more
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Since passing the 50th milestone last year, I’ve come to appreciate this precarious life more than before. With the expiry date unknown, each breath that fills the lungs feels extraordinarily exquisite… somewhat crisp and refreshing no matter when or where. And so every day is a celebration in itself for just being alive for one… Read more
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There’s nowhere to go, but up. There’s nowhere to run, but forward. There’s nowhere to hide, but outside. You’re braver than you feel. You’re stronger than before. You’ve got everything you need to overcome it all. Start listening to your inner voice. Silence the chaos outside. Eventually, peace will reign within your soul. Trust what… Read more
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ٱلْحَمْدُ لِلَّٰهِ Living is a miracle This breath is a blessing Shouldn’t we wax lyrical For God’s undeserving gifting? SubhanaAllah Glory be to Allah Alhamdulillah Praise be to Allah Allahu Akbar Allah is the greatest Life is nothing short of God’s endless mercy What He has willed Will naturally be ماشاء الله Love, Aiza 💌 Read more
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You have a story. I have one, too. And that’s our common ground. The titles and chapters are different, though there might be some similar themes in the numerous chapters. Yet, the storyline is never the same, just like its unfinalised ending. Surely you’ll find some relatable parts and that’s kind of expected. But it… Read more
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Be selfish with your time. Not everyone deserves your attention, especially when you know by giving it to that person you won’t be at ease. It isn’t a good deed if, in the end, you’re feeling bitter and full of resentment for having to go through a situation that’s full of regrets. Your heart knows… Read more
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I am reposting one of my favourite Ramadan quotes taken from the Ramadan series. Click the link to read it. https://lifeissuch861.wordpress.com/2023/04/04/ramadan-day-13/ Love, Aiza 💌 Read more
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I’m missing my mum a lot these days. But I know she’s in a better place in Allah’s care. Read more
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Little things matter. They bring joy when you least expect it to appear. Read more
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Is Mojo hiding in a cup of Joe? Read more
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No apologies for choosing myself at all times. Read more
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Twenty odd years ago, when life was nothing but easy, there was one particular issue that most university students have to endure; early morning classes. Adding to the hardship, it would always be an exceptionally serious subject. In my case, English Literature. The thick, hardcover brown book was a no-nonsense reading material. It was heavy… Read more
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Open your heart and see how blessed you are… even the tiniest favour counts. Read more
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There’s no such thing as perfect parenting. Your Child, Your Style I posted this eight years ago when my children were quite young, and my eldest was the only teen at home. Definitely wasn’t an easy time, but here I am still learning the ropes and trusting the process. Love, Aiza 💌 Read more
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Listen, it’s okay to let go of a bad relationship… With those who appear only when there’s something in it for them. The narcissists who feed on your insecurity and inferiority. Advantage seekers living off your kindness and understanding. The ones whose best offering is their negativity. Know that you’re better off without them. Just… Read more
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Full of contradictions Living her best life yet Regretting past choices Showing strength of steel Easily broken by harsh words Graceful gentleness Unless being provoked A true mama bear No apologies needed Selfishly protecting inner peace Selflessly reaching out to others Indecisive at times Wise beyond her years Nitpicking perfectionist Uplifting motivator I’m that woman… Read more
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I bet every single day, each one of us has thoughts of ‘been there, done that’ at some point. This eventful life certainly makes us feel as though we’re well-equipped to face whatever bad storms head-on. Truth is, there’s no guarantee that we’d be protected from making the same mistakes, hurting the same way, and… Read more
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Time flies. Days turned into nights, and birthdays passed by. In a flash, the kids grew up, and what was left of yesterday remained in the past. Deep in your heart, you’d wished the moment wouldn’t come, but there was nothing that you could do about it. The other day, while enjoying tea with my… Read more
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See the beauty in darkness Not the lies we’ve been fed Nothing to fear of the unseen Only work of twisted thoughts Close your eyes for a moment Breathe the unknown air Let it fill you with calmness Feel it spreads everywhere Now, Open your eyes slowly And, Tell me, what’s there? Love, Aiza 💌… Read more
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It’s a good thing to take a step back. To contemplate in silence without trying to figure out the hows and whys. If you get the answer, that’s wonderful. If you’re still in the dark, don’t kick yourself. Sometimes, the answer serves no purpose other than making you feel good for supposedly knowing. Yet, remember,… Read more
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Turning half a century is truly a beautiful blessing. It’s a time when knowledge, skills, and wisdom come together; a benchmark of some kind of supremacy where all the nuerons are connected to become one strong entity – or hopefully so! But of course, age has nothing to do with maturity and wisdom, just like… Read more
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Do you practice religion? Without a doubt, my faith is the one thing that keeps me going in this life. God, the Almighty has always been there every step of the way to guide and protect, to love and forgive when things go wrong. I’m ever so thankful to be born a believer. Alhamdulillah. Love,… Read more
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Words wear many disguises Unknowingly misleading Unapologetically honest Rather mysterious in nature Intentionally soothing Unexpectedly healing Wholesome to some Toxic to others A bundle of nerves A plethora of emotions Oh, words What do I make of you? Love, Aiza 💌 Read more
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A Ramadan haiku Read more
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Slow down. Be the seeker of everyday magic 💫 Read more
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What advice would you give to your teenage self? Read my post from 2021 👇🏻 https://lifeissuch861.wordpress.com/2021/02/11/value-yourself/ Love, Aiza 💌 Read more
Each Day Is A New Beginning
Life is Such 